Ever asked yourself the question “where are all the good MEN?”
They’re all taken or gay right?
There are plenty of great men still available and single! Problem is THEY DON’T KNOW IT . It would be great if every guy took a course in what to do and how to do it, but men can be stubborn and like to figure things out the hard way, after all, you LOVE this about them.
But it’s not always the man’s fault. Yes there are MISTAKES that even YOU are making.
Stop making these mistakes over and over that leave you lost without love. The 10 Mistakes Women Make With Men. Mistake #1: Not Approaching THEM.
Have you ever sat there and gave a man ALL THE SIGNS IN THE BOOK, only to have him ignore you and not pick up on your subtle clues?
Sure you have.
Here’s the problem, men haven’t read the book.
As customary as it’s been for the guy to hit on the women, ATTRACTIVE GUYS GET HIT ON ALL THE TIME.
Women are now starting to take more initiative and actually APPROACH guys on their own.
Attractive guys get comfortable with the mediocre success they have with the women who approach them and don’t apply themselves.
I know I did, almost all of my former relationships came from women who approached me. Once I started approaching them, my success went up 10 fold. Yours can too by HITTING ON MEN.
CAUTION: Coming on too strong will make you come off as easy, approaching doesn’t mean laying it on thick. Mistake #2: Thinking You Understand Them.
You don’t, not even close.
In fact we’re exact opposites. That’s why OPPOSITES ATTRACT.
Men are logical creatures run mostly by their brain, while women are EMOTIONAL creatures ran by their feelings. Men don’t get caught up in their emotions like women tend to do.
You must take sometime and learn how men operate first, a little psychology will go a LONG WAY. Mistake #3: Letting Them walk all over you.
Lots of women have a problem with this, they let guys walk all over them and use them, only to end up getting burned, even CHEATED on.
WHY? Because you never stand up for yourself. If you give them an inch, they will take a mile. You need to have more respect for yourself and let them know you wont be treated like this.
Put your foot down, and from this moment forward, don’t allow men to walk all over you. Mistake #4: Being Addicted To Falling In Love
A lot of women will go from relationship to relationship purposely finding flaws with a perfectly good man, why?
Because they are ADDICTED to the FEELING of being in love.
In the beginning everything seems to be so perfect and wonderful, people, especially women, CRAVE this feeling. Women create the illusion of their man being absolutely perfect, and when they find a flaw, they run.
Nothing is perfect, it takes give and take to make a relationship work, and you BOTH must train yourselves to be lovers. Think of it as a work in progress. Mistake #5: Thinking You Can Change Them.
Men get stuck in their ways. “You can’t teach an old dog new tricks.”
With help and can TRAIN them, but you wont change them, and you wont WANT TO.
Chances are, if you do successfully change him, you wont be interested in him anymore.
But if you go for the guy who needs a lot of fixing, chances are you wont get any results.
So stop trying to fix every guy, you’ll do more damage then good. Let him be the man he is and learn to appreciate that in him, after all, it’s why you fell for him in the first place.
If he needs a lot of fixing, HE’S NOT RIGHT FOR YOU. Mistake #6: Trying To Convince Him You’re The One
You can’t talk people into love, you just can’t do it.
It’s not how ATTRACTION works. It’s either there, or it’s not.
No matter what you tell him, how great you are, they should be able to see this on their own. Nothing you say or do, will make someone fall for you who simply isn’t attracted to you.
You need to learn how attraction works, and start attracting men. No logic will EVER WORK. Mistake #7: Expecting The Relationship To Bring You Happiness.
The relationship wont be a fix it solution to not being happy. Only you can make yourself happy.
Women make the mistake of believing their boyfriend is the solution to all their problems. “If only I had a boyfriend, I would be happy.” Problem is, once you have yourself a boyfriend, the problems don’t go away. And you realize he didn’t make you instantly happy all the time.
Sure it can feel like he did in the beginning, when everything is perfect, not being happy is one of the main causes why people will go from relationship to relationship, hoping their man solves all their problems.
You need to take time for yourself first and find the happiness that resides inside of you. Mistake #8: Trying To Take The Lead.
Women will sometimes make the mistake of trying to take the lead.
STOP THIS, you don’t want to be the one making the decisions all the time, so let him take the lead and follow. This can intimidate men and makes you look like you’re coming on too strong.
You can actually be too aggressive in your approach to men and this is a bad thing. It is a MAJOR turn off.
I’m all for the independent strong women, but not the ones who want to be in control. Usually you want to be the one in control, but doing this will make it look like you do.
What you’re going to end up with is a guy who gives in and listens to your every command and we both know that is not what you want. Mistake #9: Not Playing The Game.
Women say it all the time “I don’t play games.”
Well I have news for you, dating IS A GAME. You have to play the game in order to win. It’s a give and take game and it takes time.
Guys who are good with women, make them chase them, just like women try to do. You must play the game if you want to come out on top. Mistake #10: Not asking for Help
The time comes when everyone needs a helping hand with love. We’re not born with the knowledge to know it all, we must learn along the way.
My life is a sitcom.My friend prodded me to try an online dating site. When I finally did, I was surprised to meet a few nice guys. The thing is, she came over last night to compare notes – and it turns out we've been dating the exact same men! One guy in particular I quite like: We've had three dates and it's going swimmingly. We also text each other constantly. Anyway, she messaged this guy before, but he’s recently stopped writing back to her. Now she doesn't “like him” and thinks I should stop all contact. Do I reveal to him that I'm friends with that blonde he talked to last week? You'd think in the massive cesspool that is online dating, you wouldn't have such issues. I'm creeped out by the whole thing, but more angered by her reaction: She asked me to delete my profile. Should I?
Girl) Am I pretty? (Boy)No (Girl) Do you want to be with me forever? (Boy)No (Girl) Would you cry if I walked away? (Boy)No ........................... She heard enough and wazs hurt, she walked away tears ran down her face.
The boy grabbed her arm
(Boy) You're not pretty, you're beautiful (Boy) I dont want to be with you forever, I NEED to be with you forever (Boy) And I wouldn't cry if you walked away, I would die! (Boy whispers) Please stay with me (Girl whispers) Of course
Tonight at midnight your true love will realize they love you. Something good will happen to you between 1-4 p.m. tomorrow- it could be anywhere. Get ready for the biggest shock of your life! If you dont post this to 5 other pages; you will have relationship problems for the next 10 years Sorry
Many men and women have come to me and asked why they can't find a date. One look at their wardrobe and the answer becomes quite apparent. If you look like a mess nobody will interested in dating you.
Take some pride in what you wear and how you present yourself to the world. Grooming is very important because not only does it make you more attractive to the opposite sex but it also gives you more confidence in your appearance.
Visit any of those free dating websites and you'll discover many people who haven't clue as to proper presentation. They dress like their either trapped in a time-warp or else they wear what their nerdy friend bought them.
When browsing one of those free online dating sites pay special attention to how the people present themselves. Not only do the people that get more dates dressed better but they also exude a certain confidence that attracts people for dating.
Make no mistake, looks matter and does personality but presentation goes a long way.
Joey was taking Calculus at UCLA. He struggled with it, and worried about failing. Final exam time came, and he studied and studied, but, still he was not ready. The Professor passed out the exams and told the class that they had only 30 minutes. Every five minutes, he reminded the class how much time was left. This only made Joey more and more nervous. Finally, after 30 minutes, the Professor said, Stop! The exam is over. Turn them in! One by one, the papers were handed in. But, Joey just kept working on that exam. The Professor decided to wait it out and see how long it would take him. After another 20 minutes, Joey turned in his exam. The Professor asked him, What are you doing? Joey answered, Turning in my exam. The professor then told Joey, The exam was over 20 minutes ago. You have failed! Joey then looked the Professor in the eye, and asked, Do you know who I am? The professor answered, No. Then Joey asked, You really don't know who I am, do you? as if he were a very important person. The Professor again, said, No, I don't know who you are and I don't care! Then Joey shoved his exam right in the middle of the other exams, that were on the Professor's desk, and said, Good!
A young boy and his dad went out fishing one fine morning. After a few quiet hours out in the boat, the boy became curious about the world around him. He looked up at his dad and asked "How do fish breath under water?"
His dad thought about it for a moment, then replied, "I really don't know, son."
The boy sat quietly from another moment, then turned back to his dad and asked, "How does our boat float on the water?"
Once again his dad replied, "Don’t know, son."
Pondering his thoughts again, a short while later, the boy asks "Why is the sky blue?"
Again, his dad replied. "Don’t know, son."
The inquisitive boy, worried he was annoying his father, asks this time "Dad, do you mind that I'm asking you all of these questions?"
"Of course not son." replied his dad, "How else are you ever going to learn anything?"
The profile that you create on an online dating site is essentially an advertisement for yourself. It is your one and only chance to project yourself in the way that you want, and to attract the kind of people that you are looking for. The importance of your personal profile cannot be underestimated and if [...]