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Where Are All The Good Men?

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Ever asked yourself the question “where are all the good MEN?”

They’re all taken or gay right?


There are plenty of great men still available and single! Problem is THEY DON’T KNOW IT
It would be great if every guy took a course in what to do and how to do it, but men can be stubborn and like to figure things out the hard way, after all, you LOVE this about them.

But it’s not always the man’s fault. Yes there are MISTAKES that even YOU are making.

Stop making these mistakes over and over that leave you lost without love.
The 10 Mistakes Women Make With Men.
Mistake #1: Not Approaching THEM.

Have you ever sat there and gave a man ALL THE SIGNS IN THE BOOK, only to have him ignore you and not pick up on your subtle clues?

Sure you have.

Here’s the problem, men haven’t read the book.

As customary as it’s been for the guy to hit on the women, ATTRACTIVE GUYS GET HIT ON ALL THE TIME.

Women are now starting to take more initiative and actually APPROACH guys on their own.

Attractive guys get comfortable with the mediocre success they have with the women who approach them and don’t apply themselves.

I know I did, almost all of my former relationships came from women who approached me. Once I started approaching them, my success went up 10 fold. Yours can too by HITTING ON MEN.

CAUTION: Coming on too strong will make you come off as easy, approaching doesn’t mean laying it on thick.
Mistake #2: Thinking You Understand Them.

You don’t, not even close.

In fact we’re exact opposites. That’s why OPPOSITES ATTRACT.

Men are logical creatures run mostly by their brain, while women are EMOTIONAL creatures ran by their feelings. Men don’t get caught up in their emotions like women tend to do.

You must take sometime and learn how men operate first, a little psychology will go a LONG WAY.
Mistake #3: Letting Them walk all over you.

Lots of women have a problem with this, they let guys walk all over them and use them, only to end up getting burned, even CHEATED on.

WHY? Because you never stand up for yourself. If you give them an inch, they will take a mile. You need to have more respect for yourself and let them know you wont be treated like this.

Put your foot down, and from this moment forward, don’t allow men to walk all over you.
Mistake #4: Being Addicted To Falling In Love

A lot of women will go from relationship to relationship purposely finding flaws with a perfectly good man, why?

Because they are ADDICTED to the FEELING of being in love.

In the beginning everything seems to be so perfect and wonderful, people, especially women, CRAVE this feeling. Women create the illusion of their man being absolutely perfect, and when they find a flaw, they run.

Nothing is perfect, it takes give and take to make a relationship work, and you BOTH must train yourselves to be lovers. Think of it as a work in progress.
Mistake #5: Thinking You Can Change Them.

You can’t.

Men get stuck in their ways. “You can’t teach an old dog new tricks.”

With help and can TRAIN them, but you wont change them, and you wont WANT TO.

Chances are, if you do successfully change him, you wont be interested in him anymore.

But if you go for the guy who needs a lot of fixing, chances are you wont get any results.

So stop trying to fix every guy, you’ll do more damage then good. Let him be the man he is and learn to appreciate that in him, after all, it’s why you fell for him in the first place.

If he needs a lot of fixing, HE’S NOT RIGHT FOR YOU.
Mistake #6: Trying To Convince Him You’re The One

You can’t talk people into love, you just can’t do it.

It’s not how ATTRACTION works. It’s either there, or it’s not.

No matter what you tell him, how great you are, they should be able to see this on their own. Nothing you say or do, will make someone fall for you who simply isn’t attracted to you.

You need to learn how attraction works, and start attracting men. No logic will EVER WORK.
Mistake #7: Expecting The Relationship To Bring You Happiness.

It wont.

The relationship wont be a fix it solution to not being happy. Only you can make yourself happy.

Women make the mistake of believing their boyfriend is the solution to all their problems. “If only I had a boyfriend, I would be happy.” Problem is, once you have yourself a boyfriend, the problems don’t go away. And you realize he didn’t make you instantly happy all the time.

Sure it can feel like he did in the beginning, when everything is perfect, not being happy is one of the main causes why people will go from relationship to relationship, hoping their man solves all their problems.

You need to take time for yourself first and find the happiness that resides inside of you.
Mistake #8: Trying To Take The Lead.

Women will sometimes make the mistake of trying to take the lead.

STOP THIS, you don’t want to be the one making the decisions all the time, so let him take the lead and follow. This can intimidate men and makes you look like you’re coming on too strong.

You can actually be too aggressive in your approach to men and this is a bad thing. It is a MAJOR turn off.

I’m all for the independent strong women, but not the ones who want to be in control. Usually you want to be the one in control, but doing this will make it look like you do.

What you’re going to end up with is a guy who gives in and listens to your every command and we both know that is not what you want.
Mistake #9: Not Playing The Game.

Women say it all the time “I don’t play games.”

Well I have news for you, dating IS A GAME. You have to play the game in order to win. It’s a give and take game and it takes time.

Guys who are good with women, make them chase them, just like women try to do. You must play the game if you want to come out on top.
Mistake #10: Not asking for Help

The time comes when everyone needs a helping hand with love. We’re not born with the knowledge to know it all, we must learn along the way.

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The world has a lot of good men, but now you do not find ah, I believe you will find one